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My Care Languages
My Care Languages is a visual support tool designed to help people communicate what helps them feel safe, cared for, connected and understood.
Based on the idea of love languages, this resource has been adapted through a neuroaffirming lens by AuDHD women who understand that care is not one-size-fits-all. For many neurodivergent people, feeling cared for is closely connected to clear communication, sensory safety, emotional regulation, boundaries, practical support and being accepted as they are.
The resource helps people identify what works for them across five care areas:
  • Words That Help
  • Time Together
  • Helpful Actions
  • Safe Touch
  • Thoughtful Things
It includes visual assessment pages, summary pages and portable care cards that can be completed with the person and used across home, school, therapy, community and support settings.
My Care Languages is designed for children, teens and adults who may benefit from a visual, plain-language way to share their needs, preferences and boundaries. It can be used by families, carers, educators, therapists, support workers and teams to better understand the person in front of them and offer support in a way that feels respectful, practical and affirming.
This tool is not about changing who someone is. It is about listening, understanding and supporting people in ways that feel safe, meaningful and right for them.

My Care Languages

$10.00Price

  • Licence and Permitted Use

    When you purchase this resource, you are purchasing a licence to use it under the licence type selected at checkout.

    You are not purchasing ownership of the resource, design, wording, concept, files or intellectual property.

    You may:

    • download the digital files for your own use under your purchased licence
    • print the workbook pages
    • print the pocket care cards
    • complete the resource with the person you are directly supporting
    • reprint pages when preferences change
    • laminate completed care cards
    • store a copy for your own use or internal use under your licence
    • use the completed resource as part of support planning, therapy, education, family support or behaviour support work

    You may not:

    • resell this resource
    • redistribute the digital file
    • upload the file to public websites, social media, shared drives or resource libraries
    • email the file to people outside your licence
    • copy the wording into your own resource
    • edit and rebrand the resource as your own
    • remove WildFire Wellbeing branding
    • use the resource in paid training packages without permission
    • include the resource in another product, program, course or membership without permission
    • sell printed copies unless you have written permission from WildFire Wellbeing
     

    Licence Options

    Individual / Family Licence

    This licence is for use within one household or family.

    You may print and use this resource with your own child, young person, family member or person you support at home.

    You may not share the digital file with other families, schools, therapists, services or organisations.

     

    Professional Single-User Licence

    This licence is for one individual professional.

    You may use this resource with people on your own caseload.

    This may include use by:

    • teachers
    • therapists
    • behaviour support practitioners
    • support coordinators
    • counsellors
    • key workers
    • allied health professionals
    • disability professionals

    You may print copies for the people you directly support.

    You may not share the digital file with colleagues, upload it to a shared workplace drive, or distribute it across a whole team or organisation.

     

    School / Organisation Licence

    This licence is for one school, clinic, service, program or organisation.

    Staff within the purchasing site or service may use the resource internally with the students, clients or participants they support.

    This licence is suitable for:

    • schools
    • wellbeing teams
    • therapy clinics
    • disability services
    • behaviour support teams
    • support coordination teams
    • early intervention services
    • community programs

    The digital file may be stored internally for staff use within the purchasing organisation only.

    It must not be shared publicly, resold, uploaded to external platforms, edited and rebranded, or distributed outside the purchasing organisation.

    For multi-site organisations, statewide services, training packages, commercial use or redistribution, written permission and a separate licence agreement are required.

     

    Important Disclaimer

    My Care Languages is a support and communication tool.

    It is not a diagnostic tool.
    It is not a behaviour support plan.
    It is not a risk assessment.
    It is not a crisis plan.
    It is not a replacement for professional advice, therapy, education planning, medical care or behaviour support where these are needed.

    For people with complex support needs, trauma histories, safeguarding concerns, restrictive practices, significant distress, self-injury, aggression or risk concerns, this resource should be used alongside appropriate professional support and planning.

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