


Meet the speakers
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Tarnya Bruinier; Wildfire Wellbeing
Topic: Behaviour Was Never the Problem
Instead of asking, "How do we manage behaviour?", what if we first asked, "What don't we understand yet?"
Behaviour Was Never the Problem challenges professionals to look beyond behaviour and become more curious about the person behind it. Through a neuroaffirming lens, we'll explore how communication, sensory experiences, relationships, environment and what matters most to the individual shape behaviour. Attendees will leave with a practical way of thinking that helps transform curiosity into understanding, and understanding into meaningful changes in practice.
Regional representation:
Shepparton
Speaker Biography
Tarnya Bruinier is the Director of Wildfire Wellbeing Services, Behaviour Support Practitioner, educator and proud AuDHD mum of three neurodivergent children. She is passionate about creating practical, neuroaffirming approaches that move beyond managing behaviour to creating belonging.
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Gayle Wilson; Gayle Wilson Consulting
Topic: MC for the day
With a warm, cheeky and down-to-earth style, Gayle creates spaces where people feel comfortable, connected and inspired. As MC for the Wildfire Conference, she'll guide the day with curiosity, thoughtful conversations and a focus on ensuring every attendee feels welcomed, involved and encouraged to reflect on the ideas that spark meaningful change.
Regional representation:
Bendigo
Speaker Biography
Gayle Wilson is the founder of Gayle Wilson Consulting. She is a business and confidence mentor, author and speaker, specialising in improving leadership, mindset, communication and confidence. Gayle specialises in improving leadership, mindset, communication and confidence.

Ashley Lythgo; The Executive Presence
Topic: Why Connection Is the Most Powerful Tool We Have
What if the key to reducing burnout and changing behaviour isn't another strategy—but belonging? We will explore how connection shapes behaviour, wellbeing and resilience. Through real-world stories and practical strategies, attendees will learn how to strengthen relationships, improve outcomes and build cultures where people can thrive.
Regional representation:
Shepparton
Speaker Biography
Ashley Lythgo is an MBA Qualified, Registered Nurse, governance and disability sector leader, and founder of The Executive Presence. Ashley combes clinical expertise, executive leadership and lived experience to inspire audiences on the transformative power of human connection in improving behaviour, wellbeing and outcomes.
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Mickaylah O'Donoghue; Bloom Sensory
Panel: Different Perspectives, Shared Purpose: Supporting Regulation, Participation and Belonging
"It's Sensory": Why the Label Doesn't Always Fit. "It's sensory" has become the go-to explanation for children's behaviour. Sensory sensitivities are real, and anxiety can heighten them further, making a response look sensory when anxiety is the actual driver. Drawing on Ayres Sensory Integration® assessment, Mickaylah, looks at what's really driving a child's behaviour; sensory, physical, emotional, social or a mix, and why getting that right changes which strategy actually works.
Regional representation:
Shepparton
Speaker Biography
Mickaylah O'Donoghue is the founder and Director of Bloom Sensory, a paediatric OT clinic specialising in Ayres Sensory Integration, dedicated to helping kids build confidence through play.
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Rache and Allegra; Soul Society Collective
Topic: The Power of Connection & building Community.
In a world that rarely slows down, discover why connection and belonging are essential to preventing burnout. Through their mother-daughter journey, this session explores the power of community, finding your people and creating spaces where everyone feels seen, supported and valued. We hope this conversation leaves you feeling inspired to find and embrace community, and remember that you don’t have to do it all on your own.
Regional representation:
Bendigo
Speaker Biography
Rache and Allegra are a mother-daughter duo and the founders of Soul Society Collective, passionate about creating spaces where women feel seen, supported and deeply connected through the power of community and belonging.

Melanie Martinelli; The Little Black Duck
Topic: The Beautiful Autistic Brain: Recovery from Autistic Burnout
​When we understand the autistic brain—how it thinks, what it needs, and the ways autistic people naturally communicate, connect, and regulate—we can begin to live in greater alignment with our neurotype. Recovery from autistic burnout is not about returning to who we were before; it is about discovering new ways of living that honour our neurological differences.
Regional representation:
Albury
Speaker Biography
Melanie Martinelli is an autistic autism consultant, educator, researcher, and founder of The Little Black Duck, whose work explores the autistic neurotype, nervous system, identity, communication, and wellbeing through research, lived experience, and published resources.
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Amelia Slater; Amelia Slater Community Wellbeing
Topic: Masking, burnout and the cost of fitting in
Burnout is often talked about as something to fix with rest and firmer boundaries. For neurodivergent people, the reality is often deeper, and it doesn't lift with a weekend off. In this session we will look at burnout as what I
usually uncover with neurodivergent clients: the cost of masking to fit into a world that asks you to be something you're not, what burnout looks like when it's a trauma response, why rest alone won't fix it, and what recovery can look like instead. It's for anyone who supports neurodivergent people, and anyone
who's lived it.
Regional representation:
Numurkah
Speaker Biography
Amelia Slater, is an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker (AMHSW) based in Numurkah, on Yorta Yorta Country. For more than twenty years I've worked alongside individuals, families and communities, across counselling, youth and community work, and social work.

Sarah Vanis; The Anna Centre
Topic: ADHD in adults – unravelling the myths
To diagnose ADHD in adults can be confusing. At present each clinician can choose their own method of assessments. This means there is a lack of uniformity and the potential for misdiagnosis and underdiagnosis. This presentation will introduce a case study to talk about some of the difficulties in accessing a diagnosis, problems with other diagnosis and what to expect from undergoing an ADHD assessment as an adult.
Regional representation:
Bendigo
Speaker Biography
Sarah identifies as neurodivergent with a late diagnosis of both ADHD and Autism. She is a qualified teacher and in the true spirit of ADHD, changed career directions and retrained as a psychologist.

Sarah Middleton; Brilliant Little Gems
Panel: Different Perspectives, Shared Purpose: Supporting Regulation, Participation and Belonging
Supporting neurodivergent children starts with understanding. This interactive panel explores emotional regulation, sensory needs, inclusive education and PDA through a neuroaffirming lens, offering practical strategies that families, educators and allied health professionals can apply in everyday settings.
Regional representation:
Bendigo
Speaker Biography
​Sarah Middleton is an AuDHD social worker, PDA educator and practitioner, and the founder of Brilliant Little Gems. Her work is grounded in the belief that every individual is inherently brilliant and weaves together trauma-informed practice, embodiment, and relational neuroscience to create the conditions — both inner and outer — for neurodivergent people to thrive.

About the Conference:
A regional conference exploring belonging, burnout and behaviour through practical, neuroaffirming and real-world perspectives.
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Created in Regional Victoria. Shaped by Regional Voices.
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Join educators, allied health professionals, support workers, leaders, advocates, families and lived-experience voices for a day of practical learning, meaningful connection and thought-provoking conversations.
Wildfire Conference 2026 explores three topics impacting our communities, workplaces and support systems every day: Belonging, Burnout and Behaviour.
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Together, we'll challenge assumptions, share innovative ideas, explore neuroaffirming and inclusive practices, and learn from the incredible work already happening across regional communities.
This inaugural conference will feature presentations, panel discussions and lived-experience perspectives from a diverse range of regional speakers and Founding Conference Ambassadors.
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Whether you work in education, disability, allied health, community services, leadership, advocacy or are supporting a loved one, this conference offers practical strategies, fresh perspectives and opportunities to connect with others who are passionate about creating meaningful change.


Who should attend:
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Educators and school staff
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Allied health professionals
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Disability support workers
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Community and human services professionals
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Leaders and managers
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Parents and carers
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Advocates and lived-experience voices
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Anyone interested in belonging, wellbeing and inclusive practice
What to expect
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Inspiring regional speakers
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Practical takeaways you can apply immediately
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Neuroaffirming and inclusive perspectives
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A welcoming and supportive atmosphere
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Light morning tea & Lunch included
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Small-style market with resources for purchase at end of day
Wildfire Conference isn't about theory for theory's sake.
It's about real people, real challenges and real solutions.
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Come and be part of something special as we launch the very first Wildfire Conference.
The WildFire logo represents our philosophy.
Our logo represents our mission:
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the fire symbolises warmth and inclusion
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the leaves signify change and growth
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the circle represents support
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the dots illustrate the steps towards achieving goals and improving daily living.
